Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Real Happiness




To be able to really and deeply love someone, you first need to be able to love yourself!
Loving yourself can be difficult when you have limiting and derogatory messages playing in your head. Most of these messages are recorded during childhood, but their effects can be far reaching! Did you know that you're still being influenced by the things your parents and friends said to you decades ago?

When someone told you that you were no good, you subconciously believed them. When someone told you that you'd never amount to anything, again, you believed them. When a childhood friend suggested that you were stupid or learning disabled or weird, you believed them...
And you still believe them to this day - even if you're not consciously aware of these underlying beliefs.
Is it possible to overcome old messages and replace them with new, empowering messages? Yes!
You can do it the manual way, which I've explained for you below, OR you can do it the easy way, through the use of subliminal videos...
real-mind-power-skills.net/info/selfrespect
Here are three powerful ways to start:
* ROMANCE Yourself. Think about the last love affair you had? At the beginning you and your partner probably devoted a lot of time, attention and affection to each other, right? ...
You felt passionate and swept away by the beauty of your partner and he/she probably felt the same about you....
The best way to learn to "love yourself" is to enter into a similar process - with yourself! Treat yourself like ROYALTY! Do things that make you feel HAPPY. Hug yourself.
To be able to really and deeply love someone, you first need to be able to love yourself!
Loving yourself can be difficult when you have limiting and derogatory messages playing in your head. Most of these messages are recorded during childhood, but their effects can be far reaching! Did you know that you're still being influenced by the things your parents and friends said to you decades ago?
When someone told you that you were no good, you subconciously believed them. When someone told you that you'd never amount to anything, again, you believed them. When a childhood friend suggested that you were stupid or learning disabled or weird, you believed them...
And you still believe them to this day - even if you're not consciously aware of these underlying beliefs.
Is it possible to overcome old messages and replace them with new, empowering messages? Yes!
You can do it the manual way, which I've explained for you below, OR you can do it the easy way, through the use of subliminal videos...
real-mind-power-skills.net/info/selfrespect
Here are three powerful ways to start:
* ROMANCE Yourself. Think about the last love affair you had? At the beginning you and your partner probably devoted a lot of time, attention and affection to each other, right? ...
You felt passionate and swept away by the beauty of your partner and he/she probably felt the same about you....
The best way to learn to "love yourself" is to enter into a similar process - with yourself! Treat yourself like ROYALTY! Do things that make you feel HAPPY. Hug yourself. Sweet-talk yourself. Buy yourself nice things. Spend quality time with yourself -- simply because you deserve it.
* EXPLORE Your Existing Beliefs. You may 'suspect' you have 'old', limiting messages rattling around in your head but still be unsure about what they are exactly...
To discover the beliefs that are holding you back, you may need to go on an expedition! Begin exploring your existing beliefs by writing in a journal. Give yourself prompts or questions like these:
"My earliest memory of feeling stupid was . . ." "My mother always made me feel . . ." "My father always treated me like..." and so on.